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For the Woman I Never Knew

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By Victoria Polmatier | 10:42 AM PST, Mon January 28, 2019

You wore colors, 
oh so many colors
You wove a connecting thread
through scattered bits of family
binding us all into one
You gave of your time, talent and dollars
to help those less fortunate
and support your community
You were strong and independent
and maybe a bit stubborn
and once you made a choice
you saw it through no matter the cost
You quietly built a life
anyone could be proud of
and in the end, you left 
a legacy of love and wisdom
For me, you were just mom
the one I could talk to for hours
my gardening companion
my sounding board
my biggest supporter
In truth, I knew most of who you were
but was amazed at the strength
behind the woman who was Mom

Poetry
Grief, Death and Dying

Welcome

I've been writing blogs on the internet since 2007. Like my life, my words have wandered from Wisdom or Life Lessons and Wellness, to Gardening and Aquaponics. After my son’s death by suicide in 2016, Poetry became a big piece of my world as I tried to make sense of the tragedy of his death.

In truth, his death took me into my own journey with darkness. I've shared a bit during the last ten years but nothing in comparison to what I've written. Only recently have I started to climb back into life and the desire to share my writing.

These days, my writing is varied and inspired by the moment. I participate in two writing group, one where we write to prompts from a book by Judy Reeves called A Writer’s Book of Days: A Spirited Companion and the other where we journey and then write about our experience or about the wisdom gained. Much of this writing is buried in journals in my office. As I move forward, Some of that will be found under Stories, Magic and the Mystical.

How do you read this jumble of topics? You can read what’s latest, type a word into Search and see what comes up, or select a Topic from the Blog Content below. However you read, I hope you enjoy.

Blessings, Victoria

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  • Magic and Mystical (opens in new tab)
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  • Wisdom and Life Lessons (opens in new tab)
  • Play and Humor (opens in new tab)
  • Poetry (opens in new tab)
  • Grief, Death and Dying (opens in new tab)
  • Surrender (opens in new tab)
  • Sexuality (includes Sex Abuse) (opens in new tab)
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  • Gardening
    • Aquaponics (opens in new tab)

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