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In Honor of Dottie

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By devadmin | 10:25 AM PST, Sat November 12, 2022
Image of our dog Dottie

We buried Dottie today. She was Mom’s dog. She got her as a young puppy from the Humane Society. My grandson Kaleb chose her name based on the red dots in her long white hair, many of which only showed up when she’d been groomed.

She was Mom’s sidekick for many years. For the most part, where Mom went, Dottie went. Work, travel, you name it. And when Mom moved in with us towards the end of her life, Dottie came with her.

She quickly fell in love with Tom, my husband. Fueled by bits of cheese and genuine love and affection from Tom, she started greeting him with joy when he came home from work. 

Last spring we thought we were going to lose her from a stomach ailment but she pulled through. Since then, we’ve watched her slow decline. The occasional stomach issue, signs of kidney disease, and general old-age feebleness slowly wore away at her. Yesterday, a sudden unrelenting pain in the leg she’d long hobbled on, signaled the end.

We will miss her constant coughing - whether a physical issue or just her way of communicating, we’ll never know. She had such a sweet nature and those adoring eyes looking at Tom will sorely be missed.

As she moved on, I told her to head to the garden where she’d surely find Mom.

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I've been writing blogs on the internet since 2007. Like my life, my words have wandered from Wisdom or Life Lessons and Wellness, to Gardening and Aquaponics. After my son’s death by suicide in 2016, Poetry became a big piece of my world as I tried to make sense of the tragedy of his death.

In truth, his death took me into my own journey with darkness. I've shared a bit during the last ten years but nothing in comparison to what I've written. Only recently have I started to climb back into life and the desire to share my writing.

These days, my writing is varied and inspired by the moment. I participate in two writing group, one where we write to prompts from a book by Judy Reeves called A Writer’s Book of Days: A Spirited Companion and the other where we journey and then write about our experience or about the wisdom gained. Much of this writing is buried in journals in my office. As I move forward, Some of that will be found under Stories, Magic and the Mystical.

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Blessings, Victoria

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