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Goodbye To The Old Year

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By Victoria Polmatier | 11:04 AM PST, Tue January 01, 2019
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For you, and for the lifetimes you’ve lived in one short year:
For the digging and the smoothing and the planting 
For placing herbs long grown in pots into their new home
For maintaining your own sanity amidst so much change
For taking on what you said you'd never do
For being love first
For learning you can do things you never thought you could
For finding the will to step beyond the wall
For surrendering to life and taking one day at a time
For putting love and care ahead of your own agenda
For walking beside one who is dying - caring, carrying, loving
For walking beside one who is stretching into adulthood - nurturing, coaxing, pushing when necessary
For letting go of your own agenda 
For finding Spirit in the midst of the ache and the pain
For exploring the edges of your known self, shining the light on old beliefs
For creating a place of beauty and strength from the old home
For taking bits of time to simply be in nature, feeling into immense peace underneath it all
For falling, failing and standing again, learning to be better
For all of this I honor you, the year you have lived and the one you are about to begin.

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I've been writing blogs on the internet since 2007. Like my life, my words have wandered from Wisdom or Life Lessons and Wellness, to Gardening and Aquaponics. After my son’s death by suicide in 2016, Poetry became a big piece of my world as I tried to make sense of the tragedy of his death.

In truth, his death took me into my own journey with darkness. I've shared a bit during the last ten years but nothing in comparison to what I've written. Only recently have I started to climb back into life and the desire to share my writing.

These days, my writing is varied and inspired by the moment. I participate in two writing group, one where we write to prompts from a book by Judy Reeves called A Writer’s Book of Days: A Spirited Companion and the other where we journey and then write about our experience or about the wisdom gained. Much of this writing is buried in journals in my office. As I move forward, Some of that will be found under Stories, Magic and the Mystical.

How do you read this jumble of topics? You can read what’s latest, type a word into Search and see what comes up, or select a Topic from the Blog Content below. However you read, I hope you enjoy.

Blessings, Victoria

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